“A hard worker has plenty of food, but a person who chases fantasies ends up in poverty.”

‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭28:19‬ ‭NLT‬‬

Totally guilty of that, Just dreaming but not doing.


What is wisdom?

“Those who trust their own insight are foolish, but anyone who walks in wisdom is safe.”

‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭28:26‬ ‭NLT‬‬

For a long time I always assumed being wise means knowing what to do in a situation, with certain knowledge and understanding of the situation. But apparently, that is called “insight” and not wisdom? So what is wisdom then? Does it mean true wisdom is actually a manifestation of God’s presence in our midst, like how the book of Proverbs describe wisdom as a person?

Is it just me or do others think that when a girl expresses her interest in you, it makes her look interesting and cool cause it’s not something most people would do? And there’s much courage in her to do so?

I mean, showing interest doesn’t mean anything. It’s just being honest and real, not like deeply in love or something. Like it’s just the beginning of any budding relationship, so if it doesn’t work out it shouldn’t be too bad a thing also? So why do people get so hung up and over exaggerate the consequences behind such stuffs?

I would think the same too, but from what i heard it seems like when put in such a situation when a guy expresses interest in a girl, she will get over paranoid and choose flight instead of being chill & casual about it?

One major life lesson I learnt after going through Commando training for 2 years is that as long as you don’t take the harsh words people say to you personally and literally, you can get a good laugh or two in the midst of criticism and brush it off easily.

Praise is not eternal and criticism is not final. If you’re affected, face it head on, confess eternal truths about who you are, pick yourself up and move on. Life is too precious to wallow in self-pity and to drown in the praises/citicisms of people.

Move on, move on.

Sometimes i wish someone can just be honest and guide me along with helping me to take note of certain social cues and hitting me in the head when i think+say something stupid or when should i be initiative instead of me having to try figure the things ppl normally figure out in secondary school. It’s like the older you grow, the less social error you’re allowed to make. And that’s not helping

I really wanna make an impact in the young people, investing in the next generation and growing them into fathers who will father their generation and the next.

Sounds like a grand scheme for longsuffering, a whole lot of love and patience, with much time and energy invested.

Am I willing to give the best years of my life to serve my generation and the next? Will I faithfully pray for what is not until it becomes what is?